12 November 2013

10 things i can tell you about your husband

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So far, in the first half of 2014, I'm in two weddings and have been invited to two weddings and four destination bachelorette parties. Essentially, January to June of next year is wedding season. Plus one baby shower I'm hosting. 

And I'm pumped about this. It's going to be one fun spring. I cannot wait to watch my friends marry the men of their dreams; begin to build their families and futures. 

But, as a single girl, something I've both watched happen and experienced myself is the feeling that there is a club to which I've not been invited. Somehow, my friends keep getting invitations from the future - husbands, registries, honeymoons and babies. And for some reason, I just can't swing an invite. 

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As I've watched my friends get engaged, I've seen a very real and obvious transition in their demeanor. They have immediately shifted from an attitude of "it's just us single girls" to "it's just you single girls." And I want to be very clear here: this is not wrong. Heck no! In fact, I think almost any girl in her 20s that is ready to get married would gladly swap that us for a you

But, the truth is, when you're left in the single pile, as your friends slowly get chosen, it can get lonely. You begin to wonder why your friends are finding really great guys and you somehow keep going on dates where the guy is suggesting tequila shots on a Tuesday and stopping for chewing tobacco on the drive home (true story). 

You begin to wonder: is it me? Am I talking too much? Wearing the wrong thing? Not playing hard to get? Playing too hard to get? 

I've hesitated to write this post for a while because I'm still single and I feared people would consider my advice irrelevant because of that. But then I realized that it is inevitable: once I get engaged, things will change for me, too. I will stop thinking about these things. I will inevitably stop feeling single. 

So, these are the things I wish someone had told me before I'd met my husband. Or rather, before I even ventured into the 20-something dating scene. 

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1. When you meet your husband, you won't worry about messing it up. I've dated guys that I've been constantly worried about messing it up with: I worried about what I said. Was I too loud? Did I talk to much? Does he like the restaurant I picked? Does he really want to go to this wedding with me, or does he feel obligated? And I've dated guys around whom I've felt completely myself: messy hair, talkative, with my real emotions just pouring out. 

And you know what? Even though I am still single, I know the latter is where I'm supposed to land. I don't want to live a life of performing, where I'm constantly looking and acting perfect for my husband. Do I want to please him, for him to find me attractive and amazing? Of course. But I want a real life, where he finds me attractive even when I have on leggings and glasses and no makeup, not just when I have on date attire. I know the freedom I find when being my honest self is the freedom I want in my marriage. 

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2. Marry a nice guy. I freaking love players. There. I said it. UGH. It's a disease, you know? I have dated players and meanies and looked deep into their eyes and thought: oh I could love you. I could be the one you turn nice for. I know you've hurt girls before, but when you see how great I am, I think you'll want to put a ring on it and mellow out. 

First of all: this is really rare. I have seen this happen (a) in movies and (b) for a few of my friends, but these instances are the exception to the rule. It's very rare that a guy who has serious issues (that need therapy) will meet you and suddenly all of those self-worth issues will be resolved. People change, yes, yes yes. BUT it is not your job to change someone. So please, my friends, give the nice guys a chance. 

When I was in Africa, I was watching Bob Goff play a game with the kids and I had this moment of clarity. I thought: that's a nice guy. And if you marry a nice guy, you get a future with a nice man. 

3. Don't pursue guys. If a guy is interested, he will find a way to talk to you. I once had a guy text me about his hemorrhoid. Not kidding. If a guy wants to talk to you, he will find a way to do it. Just sit back and enjoy the show, my friends. 

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4. Don't play games. You know what else I used to love? Games. They made me feel like I was in control; like I was handling the situation, the relationship. But if you're super gamey up front, when you stop playing the games in the middle, you'll quickly find the end. Just be yourself. I used to wait exactly ten minutes longer than the guy did to reply to a text. But, who was I fooling? We all have our phones on us all  the dang time. 

5. Slow down, enjoy dating. When you go from dating to married, things obviously change. And one thing that will happen is that him taking you on a nice date won't quite be the same. Your money will be shared. Your calendars will be shared. Enjoy the fact that a guy is making time on your calendar to take you on a date.

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6. Don't lose yourself. In friendships. In new relationships. In work. There are a lot of things in our 20s that will offer - if not threaten - to define us. Don't become any one thing. Just become yourself. And when you meet your husband, he will fully embrace it.

7. Don't confuse criticism with a lack of love. I'm a recovering (and sometimes still struggling) perfectionist. One of the hardest things for me to learn has been that just because someone doesn't like an idea I have, or what I choose to do, doesn't mean they don't love me. Does it mean they're right? Not necessarily. But being willing to look outside of our ideas and opinions makes us stronger individuals, and will make us stronger in our future relationships. 

8. When you're dating the right person, you will have peace. You won't constantly worry about whether or not it's right. If you're consumed by wondering if you should end it - but are afraid to - you should probably end it. 

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9. Listen to the people that love you. Listen to your gut, of course. But also, if everyone that loves you doesn't love him, there's probably more to it. My siblings and my parents are my litmus test, hands down. They've seen me through it all and if they say there's smoke, I know I need to check for fire. 

10. If there are really, really big differences in dating, don't ignore them. I know I have to marry a Christian - and he has to lead me. I know this isn't everyone's priority, but figure out what are your priorities, and don't settle. I don't give two hoots about politics (seriously - I had no idea it was a big voting day in GA last week), but I care about other things very deeply. I know that. And I won't forget about them.

11. (Bonus!) He makes sure you know you're enough. Dressed up. In sweatpants. Hyper. Sleepy. Hangry. Giddy. From head to know. You are enough. Don't forget it. 

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116 comments:

  1. This! Whitney, I am so with you on this. I've been dating my sweet boyfriend for almost 4 years, and due to circumstances neither of us can change (me: still in school in Athens, him: still in school in Atlanta), we cant get married yet-- which is hard, but good. But feeling uninvited, even though unintentionally, to the "married club" hurts sometimes. I have to hold on to the truth that He makes all things beautiful in HIS time!

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    1. Ah, Wendy, it's so true! all is beautiful in his time, not ours!

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    2. i have been married for 4years and i have a break up with my husband 3months ago and i was worried and so confuse because i love him so much. i was really going too depressed and a friend directed me to this spell caster Dr.AIRIOHUODION and i made all my problems known to him and he told me not to worry that he was going to make my husband to come back to me and in just 48hours i receive a call from my husband and he was appealing that i should come back to the house. i have never in my life believe in spell and but now it have just helped me and i am now so happy. All Thanks to him and if you also want to have your Husband back to yourself here !! his email Address airiohuodiontemple@gmail.com, i am so happy to testify of your work and kindness

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  2. you are amazing. this post is amazing. so spot on whit! xo

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  3. You failed to mention scrunchies several times in this post. :) I love this and you, Whit!

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  4. Gotta love truth and wisdom. Well done #3

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  5. you are fabulous and so is this post! love you whitney!

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  6. As a former 20 something turned married (and expecting a baby) 31 year old I can tell you that your #2 is right on. Marry a nice guy! I had my fair share of players but my husband is the nicest man ever and not only do I get a life with a nice man, my child will have the nicest dad.

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    1. that's the best :) thank you for telling me this!

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  7. Whitney you are such a wise soul. These are such good points. I hope I can interject that from a guy's perspective. Reading this leaves me no doubt that you have a truly amazing love in your future. You're a rare find my friend.

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  8. Whitneyyyy this is seriously EXACTLY what I needed to read this afternoon (re: my email)...I am literally in tears right now because it's like you reached through the screen and gave my soul a huge, huge hug.

    thank you, thank you, thank you sweet friend.

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  9. I just LOVE this so much. I know I already wrote that to you once, but tis true!

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  10. I'm with Kate! Whitney- this is exactly what I needed to hear! I'm only 22 and this is all already SO applicable. Thanks for your insight :)

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    1. thank you martina!!! i am so glad it resonated :D

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  11. "You begin to wonder why your friends are finding really great guys and you somehow keep going on dates where the guy is suggesting tequila shots on a Tuesday and stopping for chewing tobacco on the drive home (true story)."

    This post makes me miss you so much! Not only because I laughed out loud through the whole post "It's a disease, you know?" But because I missed laughing with YOU. When's our next weekend getaway?

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  12. I think #8 was the biggest for me when I fell in love with (and married) my husband. I normally get stressed out and over think things, but I was so chill and at peace with every part of the process. The Eagles' Peaceful, Easy Feeling was like the soundtrack of our courtship. lol! And while marriage involves a lot of hard work it shouldn't be hard. :)

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    1. i LOVE this. i am so with you. you either feel peace or don't and cannot fake it!

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  13. How perfect! I think writing this post single is the best way and every bit of your bits of wisdom are beyond true. Life is too busy to concern yourself with what you do "wrong" - go be beautifully you and believe He has higher plans for you!

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  14. I just want to thank you for writing this ... I stumbled across this article just as I was breaking up with a boyfriend of one a half years...who in many ways was the kind of guy I want to end up with, and yet I was constantly feeling that something was off. #8 on this list hit me like a ton of bricks. Here's to a 2014 of new beginnings, new adventures, and maybe with some luck new love!

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  15. I can't help feeling like #3 and #4 contradict each other a bit. Refusing to pursue someone you're interested in, sitting back and letting him do all the work, is kind of playing a game.

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  16. I love this! I am married and you definitely hit the nail on the head for all of these!

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  68. my heart is overwhelmed with Joy.that is why i am advising any one out there to contact Dr Bully, the mighty Psychic that can help you reunite you and your ex lover in just 48 hours...i don't have much to say but i must thank Dr Bully for helping me reunite my marriage with my Ex Husband in 48 hours when i taught nothing could be done any more...he is the best, genuine and Great Psychic that can help you solve any relationship problem, getting pregnant and even help you Cure Any Disease with his Natural Power....his spell work within 48 hours and it has no side effect...you can contact Dr Bully through his email at bullytemple@yahoo.com..you can also add him on Facebook as "Kareem Abhida" or message him through his page on Facebook as "Dr Bully Temple"""...once again his email address is bullytemple@yahoo.com contact him now and get your problem solved for ever...

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  69. I am Happy to Share this Testimony of mine to the Entire world on how i just got my Husband back who left me just because we had a minor Quarrel. He Left me and Our Three Years old Daughter without knowing if we were in existence. A friend of mine Directed me to Dr Caro, A Female Spell Caster and When i contacted Her, She Did a Love spell for me and my Husband who was away for almost 6 years still came back and knelt down in front of me begging to forgive all he caused me and our daughter. From that Moment, We have being living in peace and in happiness and i so much Grateful to what Dr Caro did for me. anyone who is reading this testimony and want to contact Dr caro for help should kindly do that by emailing her on: carosolutionhome@hotmail.com
    Website: http://carosolutionhome.webs.com/
    Annie Snyder

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  70. I am Happy to Share this Testimony of mine to the Entire world on how i just got my Husband back who left me just because we had a minor Quarrel. He Left me and Our Three Years old Daughter without knowing if we were in existence. A friend of mine Directed me to Dr Caro, A Female Spell Caster and When i contacted Her, She Did a Love spell for me and my Husband who was away for almost 6 years still came back and knelt down in front of me begging to forgive all he caused me and our daughter. From that Moment, We have being living in peace and in happiness and i so much Grateful to what Dr Caro did for me. anyone who is reading this testimony and want to contact Dr caro for help should kindly do that by emailing her on: carosolutionhome@hotmail.com
    Website: http://carosolutionhome.webs.com/
    Annie Snyder
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  71. my heart is overwhelmed with Joy.that is why i am advising any one out there to contact Dr Bully, the mighty Psychic that can help you reunite you and your ex lover in just 48 hours...i don't have much to say but i must thank Dr Bully for helping me reunite my marriage with my Ex Husband in 48 hours when i taught nothing could be done any more...he is the best, genuine and Great Psychic that can help you solve any relationship problem, getting pregnant and even help you Cure Any Disease with his Natural Power....his spell work within 48 hours and it has no side effect...you can contact Dr Bully through his email at bullytemple@yahoo.com..you can also add him on Facebook as "Kareem Abhida" or message him through his page on Facebook as "Dr Bully Temple"""...once again his email address is bullytemple@yahoo.com contact him now and get your problem solved for ever...

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  72. HOW DR LOVE GET MY EX BOYFRIEND BACK
    Dr Love Save My Marriage,i want to use this Opportunity to thanks him very much for bring Love of my Life Back to me Again After 2year he left me to A business Trip in United Kingdom without contacting me or call me for years even when i try to find him to United Kingdom i don't see him then back to the states thinking what to do and how to get my Lost Husband never know he met a Lady in London and he was living with her for two years , then one day A Friend of mine Julie told me about Dr Love Solution that he can help me to get my lost Husband back to me between 24hrs taught it was a joke but i just decided to contact Dr LOVE drlovespellcastersolution@gmail.com drlovesolution@yahoo.com 2348038096203 he told me my Husband would be back to me in next 12 hrs after casting spell on him so really when the 12 hrs completed my Husband call me on the Phone and said he was John that he was so sorry that he want to come back to me in the States,i was so Happy that my Husband that left me for 2 Years called me and say sorry that he want to see me Now we are together he can't do without me he always wants me by his side.now he love's me and he does not want anything to hurt me anymore.My Husband bought me a new car and a Gold wristwatch. now i have access to his account to prove that he will never leave me alone Again, am so happy all thanks goes to Dr Love spell caster .if you want to contact him for help here his is private email address Drlovespellcastersolution@gmail. com , drlovesolution@yahoo.com Tel : +2348038096203 He was very Genuine and he work wonderful Job for me after i think i lost my Husband .

    Clara UK.

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  73. My name is Kathy and I Want to tell the world about a great man called Dr.Ekpen of EKPEN TEMPLE for bringing joy into my marriage after 3years of divorce from my husband and my 2 kids, i have don everything to bring them back to my life because i love them so much so a friend introduced me to a spell caster last month who did every thing spiritually and bring them back within 48hours, now we are together and happy even more than we where before. You can contact this great spell caster to solve your own relationship problems via email like i did on: (ekpentemple@gmail.com) OR call +2347050270218

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  74. i am hear to give testimony of how i got back my husband, we got married for more than 9 years and have gotten two kids. thing were going well with us and we are always happy. until one day my husband started to behave in a way i could not understand, i was very confused by the way he treat me and the kids. later that month he did not come home again and he called me that he want a divorce, i asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all he was saying is that he want a divorce that he hate me and do not want to see me again in his life, i was mad and also frustrated do not know what to do,i was sick for more than 2 weeks because of the divorce. i love him so much he was everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told my sister and she told me to contact a spell caster called Dr Ogboni of ogbonispelltemple@hotmail.com , i never believe in all this spell casting of a thing. i just want to try if something will come out of it. i contacted for the return of my husband to me, they told me that my husband have been taken by another woman, that she cast a spell on him that is why he hate me and also want us to divorce. then they told me that they have to cast a spell on him that will make him return to me and the kids, they casted the spell and after 2 days my husband called me and he told me that i should forgive him, he started to apologize on phone and said that he still love me that he did not know what happen to him that he left me. it was the spell that Dr Ogboni on him that make him come back to me today,me and my family are now happy again today. thank you Dr Ogboni for what you have done for me i would have been nothing today if not for your great spell. i want you my friends who are passing through all this kind of love problem of getting back their husband, wife , or ex boyfriend, ex lover and girlfriend to contact Dr Ogboni with this via email: ogbonispelltemple@hotmail.com

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  75. i am hear to give testimony of how i got back my husband, we got married for more than 9 years and have gotten two kids. thing were going well with us and we are always happy. until one day my husband started to behave in a way i could not understand, i was very confused by the way he treat me and the kids. later that month he did not come home again and he called me that he want a divorce, i asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all he was saying is that he want a divorce that he hate me and do not want to see me again in his life, i was mad and also frustrated do not know what to do,i was sick for more than 2 weeks because of the divorce. i love him so much he was everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told my sister and she told me to contact a spell caster called Dr Ogboni of ogbonispelltemple@hotmail.com , i never believe in all this spell casting of a thing. i just want to try if something will come out of it. i contacted for the return of my husband to me, they told me that my husband have been taken by another woman, that she cast a spell on him that is why he hate me and also want us to divorce. then they told me that they have to cast a spell on him that will make him return to me and the kids, they casted the spell and after 2 days my husband called me and he told me that i should forgive him, he started to apologize on phone and said that he still love me that he did not know what happen to him that he left me. it was the spell that Dr Ogboni on him that make him come back to me today,me and my family are now happy again today. thank you Dr Ogboni for what you have done for me i would have been nothing today if not for your great spell. i want you my friends who are passing through all this kind of love problem of getting back their husband, wife , or ex boyfriend, ex lover and girlfriend to contact Dr Ogboni with this via email: ogbonispelltemple@hotmail.com

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  76. i am hear to give testimony of how i got back my husband, we got married for more than 9 years and have gotten two kids. thing were going well with us and we are always happy. until one day my husband started to behave in a way i could not understand, i was very confused by the way he treat me and the kids. later that month he did not come home again and he called me that he want a divorce, i asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all he was saying is that he want a divorce that he hate me and do not want to see me again in his life, i was mad and also frustrated do not know what to do,i was sick for more than 2 weeks because of the divorce. i love him so much he was everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told my sister and she told me to contact a spell caster called Dr Ogboni of ogbonispelltemple@hotmail.com , i never believe in all this spell casting of a thing. i just want to try if something will come out of it. i contacted for the return of my husband to me, they told me that my husband have been taken by another woman, that she cast a spell on him that is why he hate me and also want us to divorce. then they told me that they have to cast a spell on him that will make him return to me and the kids, they casted the spell and after 2 days my husband called me and he told me that i should forgive him, he started to apologize on phone and said that he still love me that he did not know what happen to him that he left me. it was the spell that Dr Ogboni on him that make him come back to me today,me and my family are now happy again today. thank you Dr Ogboni for what you have done for me i would have been nothing today if not for your great spell. i want you my friends who are passing through all this kind of love problem of getting back their husband, wife , or ex boyfriend, ex lover and girlfriend to contact Dr Ogboni with this via email: ogbonispelltemple@hotmail.com

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  77. i am hear to give testimony of how i got back my husband, we got married for more than 9 years and have gotten two kids. thing were going well with us and we are always happy. until one day my husband started to behave in a way i could not understand, i was very confused by the way he treat me and the kids. later that month he did not come home again and he called me that he want a divorce, i asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all he was saying is that he want a divorce that he hate me and do not want to see me again in his life, i was mad and also frustrated do not know what to do,i was sick for more than 2 weeks because of the divorce. i love him so much he was everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told my sister and she told me to contact a spell caster called Dr Ogboni of ogbonispelltemple@hotmail.com , i never believe in all this spell casting of a thing. i just want to try if something will come out of it. i contacted for the return of my husband to me, they told me that my husband have been taken by another woman, that she cast a spell on him that is why he hate me and also want us to divorce. then they told me that they have to cast a spell on him that will make him return to me and the kids, they casted the spell and after 2 days my husband called me and he told me that i should forgive him, he started to apologize on phone and said that he still love me that he did not know what happen to him that he left me. it was the spell that Dr Ogboni on him that make him come back to me today,me and my family are now happy again today. thank you Dr Ogboni for what you have done for me i would have been nothing today if not for your great spell. i want you my friends who are passing through all this kind of love problem of getting back their husband, wife , or ex boyfriend, ex lover and girlfriend to contact Dr Ogboni with this via email: ogbonispelltemple@hotmail.com

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  78. am hear to share my experience with the world on how i got my ex husband back and saved my marriage.what a wonderful man who has brought light to my life,my god will continues to bless DR Ofemo for his work of spell caster, because he help me with his powerful spell caster work.i must confess that this DR Ofemo is bless with his wonderful power as a spell caster and i must thank my friend Susan who introduce me to this wonderful man the spell caster who make me find happiness in my life again,after 24 hour when this wonderful man cast spell for me my life change automatically my ex husband who has left me for another woman for the pass 5 years came back to me for forgiveness which i never hesitate that he had realized his mistakes I just couldn't believe it anyway we are back together now and we are happy together with my two kids, contact DROFEMOSPELLTEMPLE@GMAIL.COM I have introduced him to a lot of couples with problems across the world and they have had good news... Just thought I should share my experience cause I strongly believe someone out there need's it, his email:DROFEMOSPELLTEMPLE@YAHOO.COM or contact his cell phone number+2348163387496 or his web/site: http://drofemospelltemple.wix.com/dr-ofemo.

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  79. My name is Lorna Harron, and I base in Canada...My life is back!!! After 2 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids . I felt like my life was about to end i almost committed suicide, i was emotionally down for a very long time. Thanks to a spell caster called Dr Mako, which i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet,I came across allot of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. i also come across one particular testimony,it was about a woman called Sonia,she testified about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than 2 days, and at the end of her testimony she dropped Dr Mako's e-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give it a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 48hours, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before Dr Mako, is really a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man... If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve all your problems for you. Try High Makospelltemple@yahoo.com anytime, he might be the answer to your problems. Here's his contact: makospelltemple@yahoo.com

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  80. i am hear to give testimony of how i got back my husband, we got married for more than 9 years and have gotten two kids. thing were going well with us and we are always happy. until one day my husband started to behave in a way i could not understand, i was very confused by the way he treat me and the kids. later that month he did not come home again and he called me that he want a divorce, i asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all he was saying is that he want a divorce that he hate me and do not want to see me again in his life, i was mad and also frustrated do not know what to do,i was sick for more than 2 weeks because of the divorce. i love him so much he was everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told my sister and she told me to contact a spell caster called Dr Ogboni of ogbonispelltemple@hotmail.com , i never believe in all this spell casting of a thing. i just want to try if something will come out of it. i contacted for the return of my husband to me, they told me that my husband have been taken by another woman, that she cast a spell on him that is why he hate me and also want us to divorce. then they told me that they have to cast a spell on him that will make him return to me and the kids, they casted the spell and after 2 days my husband called me and he told me that i should forgive him, he started to apologize on phone and said that he still love me that he did not know what happen to him that he left me. it was the spell that Dr Ogboni on him that make him come back to me today,me and my family are now happy again today. thank you Dr Ogboni for what you have done for me i would have been nothing today if not for your great spell. i want you my friends who are passing through all this kind of love problem of getting back their husband, wife , or ex boyfriend, ex lover and girlfriend to contact Dr Ogboni with this via email: ogbonispelltemple@hotmail.com

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  81. i am hear to give testimony of how i got back my husband, we got married for more than 9 years and have gotten two kids. thing were going well with us and we are always happy. until one day my husband started to behave in a way i could not understand, i was very confused by the way he treat me and the kids. later that month he did not come home again and he called me that he want a divorce, i asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all he was saying is that he want a divorce that he hate me and do not want to see me again in his life, i was mad and also frustrated do not know what to do,i was sick for more than 2 weeks because of the divorce. i love him so much he was everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told my sister and she told me to contact a spell caster called Dr Ogboni of ogbonispelltemple@hotmail.com , i never believe in all this spell casting of a thing. i just want to try if something will come out of it. i contacted for the return of my husband to me, they told me that my husband have been taken by another woman, that she cast a spell on him that is why he hate me and also want us to divorce. then they told me that they have to cast a spell on him that will make him return to me and the kids, they casted the spell and after 2 days my husband called me and he told me that i should forgive him, he started to apologize on phone and said that he still love me that he did not know what happen to him that he left me. it was the spell that Dr Ogboni on him that make him come back to me today,me and my family are now happy again today. thank you Dr Ogboni for what you have done for me i would have been nothing today if not for your great spell. i want you my friends who are passing through all this kind of love problem of getting back their husband, wife , or ex boyfriend, ex lover and girlfriend to contact Dr Ogboni with this via email: ogbonispelltemple@hotmail.com

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  82. Am Miss Natasha Hill from Australia. I was having serious relationship problems with my Husband and it had resulted in him moving out to his friend’s apartment. Everything got worse because he started going to bars and strip clubs frequently with his friend, getting drunk and passing out. He always threatens me on phone whenever I call him because of all the bad advises that his friend has given him. I really love him and we had been dating for 8 years which gave us a beautiful daughter and a mavalous son. I had also lost a lot of money on therapists until I was introduced to Dr. Osauyi by a friend whom he helped to marry her childhood boyfriend; this gave me total confidence and strength to get him back. I did all he asked and after 48 hours my Husband called me and rushed back home, things just changed between us emotionally. He has a job and stopped drinking and keeping irrelevant friends. It’s a miracle I never believed i twas possible because I had lost all hope until I found Dr.Osauyi . So that’s why I promised to share my testimony all over the universe. All thanks goes to Dr.Osauyi for the excessive work that he has done for me. Below is the email address in situation you are undergoing a heart break, and I assure you that Dr Osauyi is the solution to all kinds Problem that can really help you in you sutoation Osauyilovespell@gmail.com Or Osauyilovespell@outlook.com call +2347064294395 web site http://osauyilovespelll.webs.com/...

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  83. My name is Ajay from India, I want to testify to the entire world of how i got cured by (DR OJABU FROM AFRICA) healing spell from HIV AIDS. I have been living with this deadly disease for the past 10 months And 2weeks, i have done all i can to cure this disease but all my efforts proved abortive until i met a old friend of mine who told me about a spell caster from AFRICA who cast spells to heal all kind of diseases, though i never believed in spells i decided to give it a try when i contacted this spell caster, his email greatojabuhivcurecenter@gmail.com he helped me cast a healing spell,low and behold,he call me to go for checkup i went for a checkup i was told i am negative. Contact this great spell caster for any kind of disease Again his email is greatojabuhivcurecenter@gmail.com

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  84. My name is Ajay from India, I want to testify to the entire world of how i got cured by (DR OJABU FROM AFRICA) healing spell from HIV AIDS. I have been living with this deadly disease for the past 10 months And 2weeks, i have done all i can to cure this disease but all my efforts proved abortive until i met a old friend of mine who told me about a spell caster from AFRICA who cast spells to heal all kind of diseases, though i never believed in spells i decided to give it a try when i contacted this spell caster, his email greatojabuhivcurecenter@gmail.com he helped me cast a healing spell,low and behold,he call me to go for checkup i went for a checkup i was told i am negative. Contact this great spell caster for any kind of disease Again his email is greatojabuhivcurecenter@gmail.com

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  85. my heart is overwhelmed with Joy.that is why i am advising any one out there to contact Dr Bully, the mighty Psychic that can help you reunite you and your ex lover in just 48 hours...i don't have much to say but i must thank Dr Bully for helping me reunite my marriage with my Ex Husband in 48 hours when i taught nothing could be done any more...he is the best, genuine and Great Psychic that can help you solve any relationship problem, getting pregnant and even help you Cure Any Disease with his Natural Power....his spell work within 48 hours and it has no side effect...you can contact Dr Bully through his email at bullytemple@yahoo.com..you can also add him on Facebook as "Kareem Abhida" or message him through his page on Facebook as "Dr Bully Temple"""...once again his email address is bullytemple@yahoo.com contact him now and get your problem solved for ever...

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  86. my heart is overwhelmed with Joy.that is why i am advising any one out there to contact Dr Bully, the mighty Psychic that can help you reunite you and your ex lover in just 48 hours...i don't have much to say but i must thank Dr Bully for helping me reunite my marriage with my Ex Husband in 48 hours when i taught nothing could be done any more...he is the best, genuine and Great Psychic that can help you solve any relationship problem, getting pregnant and even help you Cure Any Disease with his Natural Power....his spell work within 48 hours and it has no side effect...you can contact Dr Bully through his email at bullytemple@yahoo.com..you can also add him on Facebook as "Kareem Abhida" or message him through his page on Facebook as "Dr Bully Temple"""...once again his email address is bullytemple@yahoo.com contact him now and get your problem solved for ever...

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  87. My name is Jessica Tom, From Germany.. My world and my life is back!!! After one year of Broken relationship, my boyfriend left me for know reason. I felt like my life was about to end i almost committed suicide, i was emotionally down for a very long time. (Thanks to a spell caster called Dr Akereco), which i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet,I came across allot of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. i also come across one particular testimony,it was about a woman called Jennifer,she testified about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than two days, and at the end of her testimony she dropped Dr Akereco e-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give it a try.I contacted him via email drakerecospellcaster@gmail.com and explained my problem to him, he told me In 48hours my husband will came back to me. to my surprise he come to my house asking me to forgive him We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before Dr Akereco, is really a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man... If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve all your problems for you. His legit website is drakerecospellcaster.webs.com Angain his email address is drakerecospellcaster@gmail.com

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